41% learned to orgasm between the ages of 20 to 30
36% between 15 to 20 years old
20% were under 15 years old
and a sad 3% are still waiting.
It certainly can be self taught, and studies show the most powerful ones are brought on by ourselves. Read how here.
There is no need to shy away from our own clitoris. We are the only beings with a body part designed for no other purpose, other than to bring pleasure. I think that makes us pretty important.
Last weekend in a conversation about orgasms, the following was overheard:
" We women really only need the one orgasm during sex to be satisfied, but like dessert, I had three desserts and appreciated them all".